Ordinary tranny sex is not fetish

There are many stories about love of heterosexual couples: princes and princesses, the beauty and a monster, the hero and the maiden in a trouble. We with you have only one: “admirer and shemale”.

Such scenario brings together us and our relations to an old trite joke, a pornographic stereotype, an offensive template.

As the trans activist, an author and erudite Giulia Serrano writes, “people draw a conclusion at once that if someone feels attraction or has sex with the transgender person, it means some “fetish““.

By itself, some men turn tranny into a fetish cam model and want that we only satisfy their transsexual sexual imaginations. I will constantly come across guys who want that on such tranny cam shows. They are lurking in chat rooms and just can’t wait till I go online to broadcast my show.

But we it is more, than just stereotypes. Our relations deeper and complex, than any templates.

You joke how many you want, but not to take away it from us.

To fall in love with me, it is not necessary to feel sorry

People who want to make allowance for you or imperceptibly to touch, can tell that you “such good person” because you cope with difficulties of the relations with a tranny.

Perhaps, you received back-handed compliments of the progressiveness, time maintain “freight” of my gender identity.

It offends both you, and me. To fall in love with me, it is not necessary to feel sorry for me. The relations and sex with me is not charity.

The criticism of other people on tranny cams does not define our relations. Even violence which I – and you too – we face in the world, does not define them.

You, men, really have privileges and the power which I do not have. And it really sometimes gets of us in the way.

But the real relations – for example, ours – develop and change, constantly opening new sides. I study at you, and you – at me. We quarrel, we hurt each other, we are reconciled and we grow. We leave, meet and leave again.

“To save” me from a transphobia – not your work. I already carry out it.

Only whom you need to save – it is you.

The love to me does not define you

The transphobia is insatiable. She wants to absorb everything and all.

Because of its people often correlate me to my gender identity. I am not an author, not a therapist and not the artist. I “well that tranny Asian”.

Experiences about ignorance and hatred in our society can absorb us with ease.

How it is possible to remain quiet when it is awkward to your family to hear whom you meet when your friends joke on you behind your back when, going outside at night, you have to be careful of violence always?

But you it is more, than just someone, in love with a tranny, as well as I am more, than just a tranny.

Only you solve, what does it mean for you and your male identity and as you will explain (or not to explain) the relations to people around. Even those who out of curiosity watch online tranny cams often ask live models about that.

It is the difficult choice, but in the course of decision-making you can learn a lot of new about yourself.

Here is how the love to the tranny looks

Dear former and present partners: thanks that you are nearby.

Please, do not think that I want to frighten off (!) you from the relations with tranny or “to advertise” them. As you already for certain know (and I will not allow you to forget!), tgirl do not need to ask men to fall in love with them. But some of us, for example I, want to be with men who know how to do it, and do it well. But it does not mean that you cannot make mistakes, be confused or feel a shock.

Our world claims that tranny is not worthy love, and he will try to over persuade you.

It is very simple to love a tranny. It is necessary to love as also all other people: not necessarily fearlessly, but safely.